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29th Dec 2025

12-29-2025 PART 3: When Obedience Requires Letting Go

Section 1

Genesis 21 presents one of the most emotionally difficult moments in Abraham’s life, revealing how obedience to God can collide with deep human compassion. The celebration of Isaac’s growth is interrupted when Sarah sees Ishmael mocking him, creating a conflict that exposes unresolved consequences of earlier decisions made outside God’s will. Abraham is torn, not because he doubts God, but because Ishmael is his son, his firstborn, and sending him away feels unnaturally cruel. This moment shows that faith does not eliminate pain. Instead, faith often requires walking directly through it, trusting that God is still at work even when the path forward feels deeply wrong to the human heart.

Section 2

This situation also reveals tension within marriage and family that does not lead to abandonment, but to perseverance. Abraham and Sarah face a conflict that could easily fracture their relationship, yet Scripture shows them pressing through it rather than escaping it. God’s plan unfolds amid real disagreement, sorrow, and struggle. What becomes clear is that God is operating at levels beyond what Abraham and Sarah can see, shaping Abraham’s faith step by step. This moment prepares him for an even greater test in the next chapter, reminding us that God often uses smaller obediences to strengthen us for larger ones. Sanctification unfolds gradually, as God forms His people into the image of Jesus through surrender, trust, and repeated dependence on Him.

Section 3

When God speaks, He confirms both the distinction and the promise. Isaac is the child of promise, yet Ishmael is not abandoned. God assures Abraham that He will also bless Ishmael, demonstrating that obedience to God’s plan does not negate His compassion. Abraham obeys, even though obedience looks like loss. He lets go of control, releases what he loves, and trusts that God’s purposes are better than his own understanding. This passage teaches that surrender is not defeat but faith in action. Sometimes the most powerful response a believer can offer is not explanation or argument, but a simple and wholehearted “Yes, Lord,” trusting that God is always weaving redemption, even through what feels like separation and sorrow.

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David Spoon was born and raised in a Jewish home in Detroit, Michigan. He attended a private Hebrew school called Hillel Hebrew Academy. David was bar mitzvah-ed at the age of thirteen. Not long after, he was involved in drug abuse and trafficking. After hearing the Gospel for the first time at age seventeen, David accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. A few months later, David had a dramatic experience with God. Immediately set free from years of excessive drug use, he committed himself to ministry and to furthering the Kingdom of God.

He attended Arizona Bible College, Northern Arizona University, and Life Pacific College, graduating summa-cum-laude in their Ministry and Leadership program. He also graduated with honors from Regent University with a master’s degree in Theological Studies and earned his Doctor of Ministry degree in Strategic Christian Ministry at Liberty University.

He is one of a few individuals holding ministerial ordinations from three separate denominations: Heritage Free Baptist Organization, 1981; Independent Pentecostal Ministers Association, 1985; and Vineyard Valley Association, 1988. He was also the Chaplain for the Flagstaff Police Department. In addition, David was the senior pastor of Vineyard Christian Fellowship of Flagstaff.

In addition, David started and co-hosted two different live Christian call-in radio talk shows. He hosted the very popular radio show “The David Spoon Experience” on KPRZ 1210 and a show called “To Know Him,” which aired on 88.9 on the F.M. dial-in Temecula, California at 1:00 p.m., Monday through Fridays. He was also the Director of Local Ministry for Salem Media Group in San Diego, California.

David is married to his best friend, Noelle. He has three children and seven grandchildren, plus their two dogs named Levi and Bert. On March 18th, 2019, he started “The David Spoon Experience” in Texas and is growing with his audience of awesome believers and non-believers alike.

He is the President of He Must Increase Ministry, a 501c3 ministry, and is hosting (again) the live daily radio show “The David Spoon Experience” with DJR Broadcasting in KAAM, on the 770 A.M. radio dial. The show is also on various apps and the Internet.

David is a Jewish-Christian, Bapti-Costal, Cal-Minian, Manifold Millennialist.

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