11-11-2025 PART 1: Responsibility and Readiness: The Parable of the Ten Bridesmaids

Section 1

The message begins with the continuation of the parable of the ten bridesmaids in Matthew 25. Jesus tells a story meant to emphasize spiritual readiness for His return. Five bridesmaids were wise and prepared, while five were foolish and failed to bring enough oil for their lamps. When the bridegroom was delayed, all fell asleep, but at midnight came the cry that the bridegroom was arriving. The wise had their lamps ready, but the foolish ones asked to borrow oil. This request marked the difference between diligence and negligence. The parable reminds the church that believers are the bride awaiting the Bridegroom, Jesus Christ, and that readiness is essential. Preparation cannot be borrowed or transferred; each believer must take personal responsibility for their spiritual condition before God.

Section 2

When the foolish bridesmaids asked for oil, the wise ones refused—not out of selfishness, but stewardship. Their refusal meant protecting what was necessary to fulfill their responsibility. Jesus’ story reflects a principle of accountability that challenges modern thinking. Just as passengers on a plane must secure their own oxygen masks before helping others, so must believers maintain their spiritual strength to serve others effectively. The parable teaches that personal readiness cannot depend on others’ diligence. Jesus’ lesson would likely offend many today because it directly confronts entitlement and irresponsibility. It is not a lack of compassion but a call to maturity. Genuine giving in Scripture is voluntary, not forced, and the story underscores that stewardship of one’s own resources and faith is vital to being prepared for Christ’s coming.

Section 3

When the unprepared bridesmaids left to buy oil, the bridegroom arrived. Those who were ready went in to the wedding feast, and the door was shut. When the others returned, they were denied entry because the bridegroom said, “I don’t know you.” Jesus’ warning is clear: “Stay awake and be prepared, for you do not know the day or hour of My return.” Readiness requires continual responsibility and faithfulness. Grace saves us, but stewardship and obedience reflect our relationship with the Lord. Believers must “occupy until He comes,” living actively in faith rather than hiding in fear. The call is to be among the five wise, not the five foolish—to live in spiritual alertness and commitment, awaiting Jesus’ return with hearts fully prepared.